Why Girls Don't Chase You: Simple Truth in 3 Minutes – No Nonsense!

Do you know why some guys get chased by girls while others get completely ignored? 

There is a biological secret that will have girls obsessing over a guy. 

This secret is the complete opposite of what they have always told you in the movies.

If you follow the standard advice Disney and other movies have given you, 

You will start doing everything for the girl you want. You will travel the ocean, slay the dragon, and get the treasures for her. 

In real life, 

Traveling the ocean is your time spent on her, slaying the dragon is the things you do for her, such as solving problems, and getting treasures is the money you spend on her.

What happens when you follow this advice in real life is that the girl will put you in the friend zone. 

You are valuable enough for her to keep around, but you don't interest her at all. 

You can keep slaying all the dragons, and the girl will chase some other guy that doesn't even seem to pay attention to her. Why do girls want a guy that is better than them? Girls want to catch a guy that is unavailable.

To a girl, an unavailable guy triggers the subconscious thought that this guy is chasing something bigger and more important than her. 

Unavailability also signals to the girl that the guy is not desperate for her attention and has other options. 

This classifies this guy as a high-value man, and so she begins to chase him.

The guy that is always available and always willing to spend his time and energy on her actually triggers the exact opposite subconscious thoughts. 

She sees this guy as a lower-tier man, a man that is desperate and that can easily be replaced.

There is a quote that goes, 'If you treat her like a celebrity, she'll treat you like a fan.' 

Most guys don't understand this quote and treat a girl like a celebrity. 

You have the typical Mr. Nice Guy that can't wait to show off how nice and sweet he is or the guy who blows up the Instagram DM of the girl he wants. 

What you will find is that it's often these same guys that will complain about how confusing girls are and how the douchebags get all the girls.

The alpha male, the bad boy, and the jerk all have one thing in common: they focus on themselves and hold a strong frame with girls. 

This is incredibly attractive to girls. 

Now, what does it mean to hold frame? 

It means people are playing by your rules. 

They accept your frame, your values, and morals, and they accept your leadership.

A friend is this unspoken acceptance of one person's authority, and the other person is going to follow along with that. This is something your typical nice guy does not have. Girls biologically test if the man they want has a strong masculine frame. Subconsciously, she will test it, and sometimes she will do it by starting a fight.

The guy that has a strong frame doesn't get emotional or start arguing back and forth. He might laugh it off or ignore what was said completely. This shows the girl that this is a mentally strong man, and that she can't emotionally control him. Just this minor instance of her testing his frame, and the guy easily passing the test will increase her attraction for the guy.

Don't be available all the time, maintain an air of mystery. When you interact with girls, always hold frame and focus on your own goals.