Do You Still Feel Insecure Bro ? Read This
No one is capable of enduring feelings of inferiority for too long.
It is a poison that kills you slowly and paralyses your every move and decision.
The idea that you’re lacking something or that you’re not good enough will be the end of you in the long-term.
You’ll constantly stand in your own way and prevent yourself from doing the things that would drive you closer to your potential.
This is exactly why I keep saying that thinking and spreading the idea that ego is a bad thing is simply demonic.
If you’re thinking about it, you’re doing yourself a disservice. If you’re spreading it, you’re doing everyone a disservice.
It’s evil and irresponsible.
Now, how do you get over those feelings of inferiority?
There are two answers to this:
You need to accept the idea that the feelings of inferiority are of your own making and are not an objective truth.
The reality is that you compare yourself to people who are not you and have had a different set of circumstances.
Simply put, nobody else knows or has been through what you have been through.
And that makes you unique.
Not less & not more than anyone else.
And that uniqueness has to be embraced.
Now this first answer is a matter of belief and understanding.
It takes time to sink in.
So let’s look at the second answer, which is a matter of action.
Whatever led you to the present moment is irrelevant. Yes it does play a role in how you’re feeling right now.
But that past does not define your future.
Your future is defined by actions you take right now.
And let me tell you how to flip the script:
You stack small wins upon small wins.
You reframe everything you go through as an enriching experience that grows you as a person.
Everything you experience comes to strengthen the character and develop it.
The solution is to apply yourself in everything you do.
Investing yourself fully.
You turn “If only” into “Let’s fucking do it”.
This is how your self-perception changes.
Everything is here to grow you as a person.
Ignore anything that doesn’t add up to your abilities, skills and achievements.
By doing this, you become a CAPABLE person.
And once you do that?
You internalize the idea that you are a powerful person.
Because you now hold the power of getting things done.
No matter what those things are.
You make peace with yourself by becoming a more powerful person.
Nobody who truly pursues personal growth ever thinks low of themselves.