Making Things Easy with Women: Just Be Confident, No Overthinking!

Do you really want to know what your problem is with women? 

I'm going to keep this really simple because some men just don't understand this – they just don't get it.

Overthinking and Overcomplicating:

The problem that you're having, and I used to be guilty of this, is constantly overthinking and overcomplicating everything when it comes to females. 

What men do is they try to understand what the woman they're talking to is feeling. 

You really need to learn to just go with the flow because females' feelings are always changing – they're always up and down.

Adapt to Changing Feelings:

You just need to learn to start going with the flow when you're interacting with women. 

You never know what this female that you're interacting with is going to be on, what she's going to be feeling. Most men, especially me – I used to do this a lot – get caught up in thinking, 

'Oh, I don't want to send emojis over text because that's feminine.' 

Man, what the hell? 

If this girl was just with you the other night, or you guys have been hitting it off pretty well over the past couple of days or few weeks, why the hell does it matter if you send emojis through text or not?

Communication and Authenticity:

Sometimes, none of that matters. 

If you guys feel some type of way about some girl that you're talking to or have been interacting with, then tell her about it. 

If you're flirting with her, then make it known. 

If she likes to use emojis through text, who cares? 

She may like that you use emojis through text. 

All women are going to act differently in different situations. 

None of them are the same; they all act differently. 

All of their feelings, though, tend to change sporadically at any given moment. 

You need to stop thinking to yourself, saying, '

Oh, well, if I said this to her, maybe she would have acted this way.'

Taking Initiative:

You think, 'Oh, should I ask her back to my place because she said she has work in the morning, bro? 

All you need to do is ask her to come over to your place. 

The difference between her coming back to your crib or her not going back to your crib, whether she has to work or not, is just by you simply asking her to come back to your place that night. 

Two things will happen – she'll either say yes or she'll say no and make up some sort of an excuse.

Simplicity in Approaching Women:

Every time that I tried to hype myself up and script out what I was going to say when I would approach a girl, it never went well. 

You just go up, have a normal quick conversation, and that's it. 

It's that simple – just go up to her and say something, communicate with their energy, give off that masculine vibe, that confidence that you have in yourself. 

If you're feeling some way about this chick, just let her know; it's that simple. 

That's all you have to do.

Simplify Messaging:

Then when you do go and approach the women that you're interested in and you do end up getting their phone number or some sort of contact, you don't need to be overcomplicating the messages. 

You don't need to overthink the conversations that you guys are going to have, and don't try and figure this girl out right away. 

You don't need to be psyching yourself out trying to figure out what this girl is like, what kind of girl she is right now.

Avoiding Overthinking:

And definitely don't try to figure out if she's a hoe or not; she'll show that to you herself. 

She'll show you if she's a good girl or if she's for the streets, basically. 

She'll show you by her actions as you guys continue to interact with each other. 

Some of the worst things that you can do are overthinking women, thinking that you know they're so much better than you or putting them up on a pedestal.

Confidence in Approach:

Especially when you're on your self-improvement journey and you've been becoming a better version of yourself, you should have the confidence to go and approach these women and not overcomplicate it and overthink it and psych yourself out to go up and just put yourself out there to women that you're attracted to. 

Guys, it's a true thing – women find it attractive when a man has the confidence to go and approach her when you guys are complete strangers. 

Not many men do that nowadays. 

Not many men do it, and some men that do it do it really awkwardly because they're overthinking and overcomplicating just going up and saying something to her and letting them know that they feel some type of way about her, whether she's really beautiful or she's giving off a good vibe, good energy about herself, and just having a normal human being conversation.

Conclusion:

So stop overthinking everything and complicating and psyching yourself out and trying to script out what you're going to say to these women. 

Once you can do that and you build up the confidence to just go up and say something, you guys will probably see yourselves having more success with women. 

So that's all I got for you guys today. 

If you made it through the whole article, I really appreciate you. 

I'll see you guys in the next one. Peace.