How To Be A Mysterious Man That Women Desire | (7 Secrets)

Do you understand the power of mystery? There are some men with a mysterious aura, and it drives women wild. They can't help it because the element of mystery is so powerful. 

However, most guys don't have a clue about it.

Nowadays, guys talk too much and act like clowns.

Many think being mysterious is cringe simply because they don't understand it. They think it means you sit in a dark corner and behave socially awkward.

Here is the reality: If you master the art of mystery, you will become a monster in any field of life, and it will excite women. But if you force it too much, you will only look like a fool. The key is to display the right amount of mystery. 

Discover the art of being mysterious, as it naturally attracts people, especially girls. Humans are naturally curious, and when you leave gaps for their imaginations to fill, they become drawn to unravel the mystery. 

Let us discuss seven ways to become a mysterious man in this blog post.

1. Disappear

One of the biggest flaws people make is that they always want to be seen, always begging for attention and validation from other people. It is pathetic, and people will assume you have no life. Most mysterious people are very smart and intelligent individuals. They don't easily let everyone into their life and are fine being on their own. They might disappear for a while without notifying anyone. It will leave people wondering what you've been up to after you mysteriously vanished.

Do not misunderstand it; I am not saying you should disappear and start engaging in useless activities. You can make some of your best moves in the shadows. You'll be able to work on your goals without anyone knowing what you are up to, and when you make your comeback, people will notice something is different about you.

2. Withhold Information

Never overshare information. Only an impulsive clown answers and reacts to everything. The best men don't give out too much information for no reason. They think before they speak. Whenever information does get shared, it is a conscious decision. This makes them mysterious to other people. Don't let them know everything about you. Instead, give limited information about yourself and let them keep guessing the rest.

3. Charismatic Aura

Mysterious men tend to have a lot of charisma. This means they naturally draw people in and get them on their side. A big part of it is the use of their voice. Charismatic individuals understand how to use their voice to win people over. They vary the tonality of their voice and use forces to create interest and build anticipation.

In order to develop more charisma, you mustn't end with your voice and how it comes across in social situations. It is something I have developed myself, and I can tell you it is truly powerful. There are many other variables when it comes to developing your charisma; more blog posts on it will be made in the future.

4. Unpredictable and Hard to Read

Mysterious men are quite unpredictable, and reading their minds is impossible. This makes them both interesting and exciting to women. But it goes beyond just having a woman's attention. The biggest names in the world are people who did the most unpredictable and unimaginable things.

When people talk to you, they already anticipate where the conversation is heading. If they ask you something, they have an idea about how you are going to respond. This can be based on how well they know you, on what expectations they have, or on mere stereotypes. When you act right or talk like others expect, they dismiss you with little effort. On the other hand, if you are unpredictable, people lack the experience to deal with it. There is no autopilot response. They need to think about it first.

Do not misunderstand it; an unpredictable person isn't someone trying to figure out who they are. They aren't people with conflicting views and values, and they certainly aren't chaotic and unreliable. A mysterious man is very calculated and knows exactly what he is doing.

5. Don't Care Too Much

Men often care so little that it seems as if they lack emotions. 

Here is the truth: We are all human, and we all have emotions. But a mysterious man avoids showing his emotions if they can be used against him. When you stop reacting to nonsense, it worries people, as now they have no control over you or your emotions. Remember that there are very few things that truly matter in life, so don't get wound up over insignificant matters.

6. Observe Like an Eagle

There is a quote that goes, 

"A parrot talks too much but can't fly high, but an eagle is silent and has the ability to touch the sky." 

That is true. The quietest man in the room who is being very observant is often the smartest and the strongest, while the loudest in the room is the weakest. We already spoke about how you need to withhold information, but you must combine that with observation. Only when you observe everything can you start to read other people.

Learn to sit back and observe. Not everything needs a reaction. Learn how to develop a sharp eye to read the room. This not only makes you mysterious to other people but also benefits you greatly as you become aware of everything going on around you.

7. Calmness

The man that remains calm in the face of adversity is a dangerous man. If you are able to remain level-headed while other people are panicking or becoming emotional, you will have an air of mystery that people can't understand yet will be drawn to. They will wonder how you are able to remain so composed while all others are losing themselves. Women love to see a man remain absolutely calm while handling a tough situation. They can't help but be attracted.

Train yourself to be stoic and composed no matter what the situation is. There are no benefits to running around like a chicken with its head cut off. The next time a tough situation arises, you need to tell yourself, 

"This is a test. It is an obstacle in which you must remain stoic and solve the problem to level up."

Remind yourself that if you become emotional or start stressing out, you fail the test. Always remember that the obstacle in your way is but a stepping stone on your journey.